In their new book on \"difficult\" children, child development experts Claudia and David Arp show parents of spirited children how to recognize the eight most common cries for help and what they really mean: \"Look at me!\" \"Did I do good?\" \"You’re not listening!\" \"Let me do it my way!\" \"You can’t make me!\" \"I hate you!\" \"I can do it myself!\" and \"I am a big kid already!\" The Arps—with humor, insights from Scripture, and the latest in research—share win-win strategies for nurturing the not-so-compliant child.