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“Love Others Very Enthusiastically! (L.O.V.E)”

Ramesh C. Reddy
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SCRIPTURE:
“This is how the birth of Jesus Christ came about. His mother Mary was pledged to be married to Joseph but before they came together, she was found to be with child through the Holy Spirit. Because Joseph her husband was a righteous man and did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly.” (Matthew 1:18-19, NIV)

APPROACH QUESTION:
If you feel cheated by your spouse, fiancée, boy or girlfriend, what would you like to see happen to them?

INTERPRETATIONS:
I asked myself how did Joseph want to respond and the significance of that response?
The significance of knowing how Joseph wanted to respond reveals to me why Joseph was seen as a righteous man. Even though he felt that Mary got pregnant and he definitely was not the father, he did not want to expose her to public disgrace so he had in mind to divorce her quietly without anyone knowing about it. This reveals to us Joseph's love for Mary amidst how he felt Mary had wronged him even though Mary did not wrong him but he did not know that yet. Joseph shows true love towards Mary in a world of false hope by wanting to protect her publicly and privately. Publicly Joseph wanted to protect her by not exposing her to public disgrace.

It is  especially loving what Joseph did because according to Jewish law what Joseph thought he knew could have given him reason to stone Mary but love for Mary overruled what should have been done when he thought Mary was guilty. Also, it is Joseph's relationship with God that revealed his true love towards Mary in a world of false hope because his ultimate true hope is in God in a world of false love too.

IMPLICATIONS:
I asked myself what are the implications for my own life?
The implications for my own life are profound when I study the actions of Joseph. Joseph's actions show that true love is never self-righteous but always is kind and thinks about the best welfare of the other person. So, the purpose of today's study was for me to understand that true love in a world of false hope can influence lives with true hope in a world of false love. True hope exists because of God's true love for us to give us true hope moving us to love truly.

I learned in the course of my own marriage about the power of true love. No matter how many times I have messed up in different areas with my dearest wife Chandraleela, she always loves me more and more. These past 9 years, she has exemplified for me what 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 teaches about love especially 'love does not demand it's own way; love does not keep record of no wrongs.' I am very grateful to be learning about how true love lived out looks like in the confines of our own marriage. It is her love for the Lord Jesus Christ that shows in our marriage.

It is true love that changes people and brings them back for more whether it is hearing about Jesus, living in community, etc. Sometimes it just takes that one person to make a difference which is multiplied. 

In a difficult period in our lives right now, we are so blessed to have experienced the loving support we have received from so many brothers and sisters in Christ in different capacities. Their love shows us a glimpse of how Jesus did ministry. We are touched by the loving support of Pastor Josh, Courtney, Pastor Mike, Jeanne, Pastor Bucknell, Linda, Pastor Ridge, Connie, Rodney, Suzanne, Danilo, Lidia, little Maria, Calvin, Elise, Pastor Hugo, Heather, Pastor Terrence, Mickey, Phillip, Pollyn, David, Yvonne, and so many others.

All of them could have thought, 'He created this mess by himself, so let him get out of it himself' but instead they chose to help either through prayers, God's Word, wise counsel, provision, etc to show how love lived out in action looks like. Pastor Mike made me see where my heart truly is and what is my calling which Chandra and I are so excited about even with some trepidation.

Truth expressed in Christ's love is what is biblical. We never shy away from expressing the Truth of God's Word because we do not want to offend anyone. But, we ask the Spirit of the Living God to help us reveal His Truth in love. It can be done because I have seen it happen in my own life.

As I thought about Joseph, it reminded me of God's true love for me no matter how many times I have messed up and wronged the Lord. There were areas of my life that should have been exposed to public disgrace and God could have divorced me from His presence forever because of the way I have lived my life so many times but God's true love for me in this world of false hope revealed Jesus Christ to me and what Jesus Christ can do for me instead of abandoning me. Thank you Father God!

If anything the Lord revealed His true love to me despite how many times I have sinned by my actions. Jesus' radical way of dealing with people including me shows that when the love of Christ is shown in people's lives by Proclaiming the Truth and Living the Truth, lives can be transformed by His grace through love. That's what happened to me.

It is my mommy that instilled in me the love of Christ  by loving me and rarely  being judgmental as I was growing up! When my brothers and I doubted our own walk with the Lord, she had encouraged us to keep reading the Book of Romans to show God's love of infinity towards us in Jesus Christ. To this day,or mom has us focus on what Christ's love can do for us. Thank you Jesus. Now, what an awesome wife I have in Chandra and two precious daughters Esther (7Y2M10D) and Evangeline (4Y6M11D).

All this testimony will be for naught if I do not share with you all where this Truth comes from in love. It is Jesus Christ for me. My love cannot influence anyone's life if that love is not rooted in the love of Jesus Christ, the Way, the Truth, and the Life. Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life.  It is His Way, His Truth, and His life that leads us to true love and true hope. It is found in Him. Jesus loves us so much that if we were the only one living, He would have still died for us and come back to life to save us from all our sin.  It is His love for us that made Him shed His blood on the cross of Calvary to cleanse us from all our sin so that we can be seen as righteous in the eyes of the Lord when we come to Him. Jesus gave us the free gift of His grace to save us and redeem us. Jesus did everything for us so that we will not feel judged but loved by Him. It His love for us that moves us to action.

We are not saved because of the good we think we do but we are saved because of the good that Jesus has done for us. So, no matter how our life is and how much we have messed up, we are never out of His love and His reach. He loves us as we are inspite of our shortcomings. He wants us to come to Him in our soul sickness, so He can work in us and transform us for we cannot ever get rid of sin no matter how much we try. Only Christ can do that for us and will do that for us. But for that to happen, we should turn our lives over to Him and experience His love.

To show that love he places people in our lives and especially His Word to reveal His love to us. You can have that love too because it is only His true love that can give us true hope in a world of false hope and false love. I hope you find that as I have. Knowing how Jesus loves us and understanding the implications of Joseph's actions, should move us to true love in a world of false hope. So, as we look to the Advent season, let us remember Jesus who wants to be our Lord and Savior to give us true love in a world of false hope.

I ask you now dear friend how has your L.O.V.E influenced others in life?
Dear friend, I learned how love influenced Joseph’s life towards Mary in a positive way. Joseph could have humiliated Mary with the intention to destroy her for what he perceived happened to him and what he believed. But, instead his love shows his righteousness.

 Sadly, we live in a society where love can at times just become a four letter word and not have a true meaning. Many times it is only love when things go our way but when things don’t love is shattered. A wrongdoing can easily turn human beings heart to hate which is sad if they are not careful.

When that happens we are not satisfied with our own hurt but want the other person to be hurt too. The best way people do that is trying to publicly disgrace someone for their wrong doing. I have experienced that in the past and it is so terrible. The pain and humiliation is awful too. I have also been guilty of doing that to others :(

 It does not show love but our own vengeful spirit for what happened. I have been guilty of that too but reading this passage made me realize how I need to change and let love rule me.

 Sadly in ministry people are more publicly disgraced than in other professions. I believe if we allowed love to rule the situations, things would be different. This does not mean that if a person’s actions are in the wrong, they are being approved of. Just as Joseph thought of ways, I believe we can think of ways too to rectify a situation where we have been wronged but allowing love to influence us.

Friend, maybe you have been at the receiving end of a wrong and do not know anymore how love can influence you.  But, I want you to know that whatever has happened to you, Jesus wants to show you what true love is.  No matter what has happened, the Lord Jesus can pick you up and put you on solid ground as you turn to Him this Christmas season! Yes, He can! Even if you have been humiliated, don’t let that rule you but allow Jesus to come and heal you. Love has come into this world and He will encompass you with His love.

Maybe you are at the giving end and have publicly disgraced others. If that happened, you can know there are alternatives to handle a situation. Ask the Lord for forgiveness and see how you can handle a situation from now on allowing love to influence you. That is what Joseph did.

Wherever you are, Jesus wants to be there for you. One day, Pastor Mike and the youth group shared a powerful skit called Ragman, Ragman, Ragman the Christ about how Christ's love influenced Him to take all our dirty rags and put them on Himself. He took our filth, our pain, our hurts, our diseases and bore them upon Himself so that we can have new life.

This December no matter where you have been or what you have done, you can experience the love of Christ as you come to read the love Jesus has for you in His Word. Come as you are friend and receive the help you need in Christ for He is our Hope, our Salvation, and our Peace!

May you allow the Lord Jesus Christ’s love to influence you this Christmas season now and forever! Amen!

"Love Others Very Enthusiastically!" (L.O.V.E)/"How has your L.O.V.E influenced others in life?"

Prayer:
Dear Lord Jesus, I want to thank you so much for how much you love us. Your love is so pure and unconditional. Lord for all the wrongs we have done if you did not show us love, we would forever continue to be publicly disgraced. But you have not done that Lord instead you had in mind for you to be publicly disgraced taking upon yourself our sin. Thank you so much Jesus for dying for our sin and coming back to life to save us. Help us please to be influenced by your love. I thank you Jesus for being in our life. Forgive us Lord when we allowed a vengeful spirit to decide those we want publicly disgraced. This happens a lot in society. We don’t want to be like society but how you want us to be. Thank you so much again for your love that can rule our lives. I give myself completely to you and ask you to be in control of my life. Whatever your will give me the willingness and strength to bear it. Thank you for bringing us through the years of infancy and caring for us. You have been our help so many times. Please continue to live in us and we will live for you and serve you the rest of the days of our lives. I acknowledge you as my Lord and Personal Savior. Thank you that you are our Lord and Personal Savior. Thank you that you have heard our prayers and answered us. In Your Name I Pray JESUS! AMEN!

Express Your View

 Matt 1:3,5-6, Luke 1:26-27: "What does God do about your G.E.N.E.A.L.O.G.Y in life?"By Ramesh C. Reddy (Dec 09, 19, 06:19 a.m.)