OBSERVATIONS:
I asked myself what do I learn about Mary, the mother of Jesus?
1. His mother Mary was pledged to be married to Joseph.
2. But before they [Joseph and Mary] came together, she was found to be with child through the Holy Spirit.

OBSERVATIONS:
I asked myself what do I learn about Joseph?
1. Joseph was the husband of Mary.
2. Joseph was a righteous man.
3. Joseph did not want to expose her to public disgrace.
4. Joseph had in mind to divorce her quietly!

INTERPRETATIONS:
I asked myself what do I think was going on in Joseph's mind?
Joseph was thinking that he did not make Mary pregnant because he did not have sex with her but since she got pregnant, Mary was unfaithful to him.

INTERPRETATIONS:
I asked myself how did Joseph want to respond and the significance of that response?
The significance of knowing how Joseph wanted to respond reveals to me why Joseph was seen as a righteous man. Even though he felt that Mary got pregnant and he definitely was not the father, he did not want to expose her to public disgrace so he had in mind to divorce her quietly without anyone knowing about it. This reveals to us Joseph's love for Mary amidst how he felt Mary had wronged him even though Mary did not wrong him but he did not know that yet. Joseph shows true love towards Mary in a world of false hope by wanting to protect her publicly and privately. Publicly Joseph wanted to protect her by not exposing her to public disgrace unlike what happened to Tiger Woods and privately Joseph wanted to protect her by divorcing her quietly unlike what happened to Tiger Woods.

It is  especially loving what Joseph did because according to Jewish law what Joseph thought he knew could have given him reason to stone Mary but love for Mary overruled what should have been done when he thought Mary was guilty. Also, it is Joseph's relationship with God that revealed his true love towards Mary in a world of false hope because his ultimate true hope is in God in a world of false love too.

IMPLICATIONS:
I asked myself what are the implications for my own life?
The implications for my own life are profound when I study the actions of Joseph. Joseph's actions show that true love is never self-righteous but always is kind and thinks about the best welfare of the other person. So, the purpose of today's study was for me to understand that true love in a world of false hope can influence lives with true hope in a world of false hope. True hope exists because of God's true love for us to give us true hope moving us to love truly.

HOW GOSPEL GIVES ME TESTIMONY REGARDING L.O.V.E:
 

I learned in the course of my own marriage about the power of true love. No matter how many times I have messed up in different areas with my dearest wife Chandra, she always loves me more and more. She exemplifies for me what 1 Corinthians 13 is especially about love does not demand it's own way and love does not keep record of no wrongs. I am very grateful to be learning about how true love lived out looks like in the confines of our own marriage. It is her love for the Lord Jesus Christ that shows in our marriage.

I  would not have even been at Oakland International Fellowship (OIF), if it were not for the Lord Jesus Christ using Pastor Hugo Cheng, Edwin, and Kristen of Oakland International Fellowship about 2 years ago. The Lord Jesus has used them to show me how love looks like no matter how many times I had messed up as a leader and congregation member. Even when my mistakes have been exposed to me by them, I rarely ever felt they were being judgmental towards me but always showing love.

Speaking about the pastor, I don't ever remember being offended by what Pastor Hugo said to me even if there were times I felt distressed, confused, and even disturbed. A lot of times instead of telling me how wrong I have been in certain areas of my life, he let me see it through using examples and anecdotes.

The most powerful being using the Word of God and the examples of biblical characters to make me see my own shortcomings without making me feel judged. He always does things to be of service to me. It is for me to grow in the Lord and experience Jesus' true love in a world of false hope so that my living the life will be reflected by my imitating the Living Lord's ways for my life through the Lord's transforming grace.

It is true love that changes people and brings them back for more whether it is hearing about Jesus, living in community, etc. Sometimes it just takes that one person to make a difference which is multiplied. 

I am especially touched by what Pastor Ed, Mrs. Bucknell, Pastor Hugo, Edwin, and Marie did for me two December's ago when they came to my place to help me organize my storage room and move everything that needed to be moved there. Then, last December, David, Yvonne, Steve (2x), Jomei, Johannes, Daniel, and Matt of Transformers small group helped me move tons of filled boxes. Finally, before Chandra's entrance to the U.S., my brother Ravi and my mommy did their best to ensure the place Chandra and I will live at would look so different than what I remembered. All of them showed love beyond my weaknesses when they could have easily blamed me and let me fend for myself.

All of them could have thought, 'He created this mess by himself, so let him get out of it himself' but instead they helped me move everything on different occasions giving up their own precious time. I never felt judged by them for being a pack rat but helped so much. Their help is what gave me peace to go to India and bring my wife back to a clean place. They never condoned my actions of keeping everything but patiently helped out.

God's Truth expressed in love will look like that and how Jesus approached the Samaritan Women at the Well in John 4.  For my own life, it has been experienced through how the Lord Jesus has used my mommy while growing up and currently uses my sweetest wife Chandra.

Truth expressed in Christ's love is what is biblical. We never shy away from expressing the Truth of God's Word because we do not want to offend anyone. But, we ask the Spirit of the Living God to help us reveal His Truth in love. It can be done because I have seen it happen in my own life.

As I thought about Joseph, it reminded me of God's true love for me no matter how many times I have messed up and wronged the Lord. There were areas of my life that should have been exposed to public disgrace and God could have divorced me from His presence forever because of the way I have lived my life so many times but God's true love for me in this world of false hope revealed Jesus Christ to me and what Jesus Christ can do for me instead of abandoning me. Thank you Father God! Despite my soul sickness, as Jason and Andrea, staff workers of Asian InterVarsity Christian Fellowship like to use for sin, Jesus Christ did not abandon me.

If anything He revealed His true love to me despite how many times I have sinned by my actions. Jesus' radical way of dealing with people including me shows that when the love of Christ is shown in people's lives by Proclaiming the Truth and Living the Truth, lives can be transformed by His grace through love. That's what happened to me. It is my mommy that instilled in me the love of Christ  by loving me and rarely  being judgmental! When my brothers and I doubted our own walk with the Lord, she had encouraged us to keep reading the Book of Romans to show God's love of infinity towards us in Jesus Christ. To this day, my mommy has us focus on what Christ's love can do for us. Thank you Jesus. Now, what an awesome wife I have in Chandra and a beautiful 9 week old daughter in Esther :)

All this testimony will be for naught if I do not share with you all where this Truth comes from in love. It is Jesus Christ for me. My love cannot influence anyone's life if that love is not rooted in the love of Jesus Christ, the Way, the Truth, and the Life. Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life.  It is His Way, His Truth, and His life that leads us to true love and true hope. It is found in Him. Jesus loves us so much that if we were the only one living, He would have still died for us and come back to life to save us from all our sin.  It is His love for us that made Him shed His blood on the cross of Calvary to cleanse us from all our sin so that we can be seen as righteous in the eyes of the Lord when we come to Him. Jesus gave us the free gift of His grace to save us and redeem us. Jesus did everything for us so that we will not feel judged but loved by Him. It His love for us that moves us to action.

We are not saved because of the good we think we do but we are saved because of the good that Jesus has done for us. So, no matter how our life is and how much we have messed up, we are never out of His love and His reach. He loves us as we are inspite of our shortcomings. He wants us to come to Him in our soul sickness, so He can work in us and transform us for we cannot ever get rid sin no matter how much we try. Only Christ can do that for us and will do that for us. But for that to happen, we should turn our lives over to Him and experience His love.

To show that love he places people in our lives and especially His Word to reveal His love to us. You can have that love too because it is only His true love that can give us true hope in a world of false hope and false love. I hope you find that as I have. Knowing how Jesus loves us and understanding the implications of Joseph's actions, Jesus' actions towards the Samaritan woman in John 4 and Adulterous woman in John 8 should move us to true love in a world of false hope. So, as we look to the Advent season, let us remember Jesus who wants to be our Lord and Savior to give us true love in a world of false hope.

I ask you now dear friend how has your L.O.V.E influenced others in life?
Dear friend, I learned how love influenced Joseph’s life towards Mary in a positive way. Joseph could have humiliated Mary with the intention to destroy her for what he perceived happened to him and what he believed. But, instead his love shows his righteousness.

 Sadly, we live in a society where love can at times just become a four letter word and not have a true meaning. Many times it is only love when things go our way but when things don’t love is shattered. A wrongdoing can easily turn human beings heart to hate which is sad if they are not careful.

When that happens we are not satisfied with our own hurt but want the other person to be hurt too. The best way people do that is trying to publicly disgrace someone for their wrong doing. I have experienced that in the past and it is so terrible. The pain and humiliation is awful too. I have also been guilty of doing that to others :(

 It does not show love but our own vengeful spirit for what happened. I have been guilty of that too but reading this passage made me realize how I need to change and let love rule me.

 Sadly in ministry people are more publicly disgraced than in other professions. I believe if we allowed love to rule the situations, things would be different. This does not mean that if a person’s actions are in the wrong, they are being approved of. Just as Joseph thought of ways, I believe we can think of ways too to rectify a situation where we have been wronged but allowing love to influence us.

Friend, maybe you have been at the receiving end of a wrong and do not know anymore how love can influence you.  But, I want you to know that whatever has happened to you, Jesus wants to show you what true love is.  No matter what has happened, the Lord Jesus can pick you up and put you on solid ground as you turn to Him this Christmas season! Yes, He can! Even if you have been humiliated, don’t let that rule you but allow Jesus to come and heal you. Love has come into this world and He will encompass you with His love.

Maybe you are at the giving end and have publicly disgraced others. If that happened, you can know there are alternatives to handle a situation. Ask the Lord for forgiveness and see how you can handle a situation from now on allowing love to influence you. That is what Joseph did.

Wherever you are Jesus wants to be there for you. Yesterday, Pastor Michael and the youth group shared a powerful skit called Ragman, Ragman, Ragman the Christ about how Christ's love influenced Him to take all our dirty rags and put them on Himself. He took our filth, our pain, our hurts, our diseases and bore them upon Himself so that we can have new life.

This December no matter where you have been or what you have done, you can experience the love of Christ as you come to read the love Jesus has for you in His Word. Come as you are friend and receive the help you need in Christ for He is our Hope, our Salvation, and our Peace!

May you allow the Lord Jesus Christ’s love to influence you this Christmas season now and forever! Amen!

"Love Others Very Enthusiastically!" (L.O.V.E)/"How has your L.O.V.E influenced others in life?"

Prayer:
Dear Lord Jesus, I want to thank you so much for how much you love us. Your love is so pure and unconditional. Lord for all the wrongs we have done if you did not show us love, we would forever continue to be publicly disgraced. But you have not done that Lord instead you had in mind for you to be publicly disgraced taking upon yourself our sin. Thank you so much Jesus for dying for our sin and coming back to life to save us. Help us please to be influenced by your love. I thank you Jesus for being in our life. Forgive us Lord when we allowed a vengeful spirit to decide those we want publicly disgraced. This happens a lot in society. We don’t want to be like society but how you want us to be. Thank you so much again for your love that can rule our lives. I give myself completely to you and ask you to be in control of my life. Whatever your will give me the willingness and strength to bear it. Thank you for bringing us through the years of infancy and caring for us. You have been our help so many times. Please continue to live in us and we will live for you and serve you the rest of the days of our lives. I acknowledge you as my Lord and Personal Savior. Thank you that you are our Lord and Personal Savior. Thank you that you have heard our prayers and answered us. In Your Name I Pray JESUS! AMEN!

Lord Jesus, You are my all in all. You are my Prince of Peace, Rock, Savior, and Friend. You are my Holy Father guiding me through to live a life of righteousness, holy righteousness. Oh God, I need you more than ever. I need to feel your hands around me holding me tight. I need your love to surround me so that you can glow in my life. Help me please Jesus. I desire in your presence. Thank you for guiding me to live a life of righteousness. Oh God you love me more than ever. You hear my voice when I cry out to you. When I seek your face, you fill me up. You are my all in all. Thank you Jesus so much for your help no matter what I face, your grace is available and you take my case. Thank you for hearing us and answering us. In Your Name I Pray Jesus! AMEN! (Most of the prayer is from a vineyard song called “All in All”)

If you would like to invite Jesus Christ into your heart and make Him a daily part of your life, you can this very moment. You will never be alone. You can claim God's promises for you in the Bible and see them come true, before your eyes, in His wonderful timing. You don't have to wait for a special time to come to the Lord. You can come right now as you pray the prayer below, meaning it in your heart.

Prayer:
God I am a sinner. I am invaded by this deadliest virus. Many times I feel so guilty and yucky inside. I need forgiveness. I am so sorry for my sins. I have not obeyed you with my whole heart! I have gone my own way and done my own things. I  struggle with sin. I need you Jesus in my life so I can receive forgiveness and a new beginning. In the process, I can forgive others as you help me to. Thank you so much Jesus. I accept the antidote you have sent me. I believe Jesus you died for me and your cleansing blood will cleanse me from all my sins. You came back to life to save me. Thank you God I am set free, free from the bondage of sin. Hear my cry Oh Lord. I accept you Jesus into my heart. I make you my Lord and Personal Savior of my life. Thank you Father God for giving me Salvation. Thank you Jesus for coming into my heart and making my heart your home. Thank you for living in me Jesus and I will live for you and serve you the rest of the days of my life. Thank you for being my Lord and personal Savior! I can live a life of peace with you on my side. Thank you that you have heard my prayer and answered me! In your Name I Pray Jesus! AMEN!

No matter what you feel in your heart, know that Jesus has come in and resides with you! You are not alone! To make your walk strong with the Lord, spend time in prayer talking to Him as you would to a friend. You don’t need special words to talk to the Lord. Spend time in His Word reading Psalms and turning them into prayer. Next allow God to heal you and speak to you through the Gospel of John or Gospel of Mark before moving on to other Books of the Bible! Slowly, let the Lord show you to which Scriptures He wants you to go to next. It is also important to be part of a body of believers to help you grow in the faith. Find a Bible believing church that preaches the Word of God from Genesis to Revelation proclaiming Jesus Christ our crucified and risen Lord who brings us hope, healing, and help!

No matter who you are, it is not ever too late to join a Bible-believing church or a college fellowship. I highly encourage each of you to come to Transformers Small Group on Friday nights at 7:00 p.m. and Oakland International Fellowship on Sunday mornings at 9:30 a.m. for prayer, 11:30 a.m. for worship, 10:30 a.m. for Sunday School, and 12:30 p.m. for fellowship lunch.

May the Lord's presence and peace fill you with His love now and forever! Amen!

Friend, if you have prayed this prayer and meant it in your heart, you are a new creation in Christ and all old things are passed away and everything has become new! You may feel something or may not but don’t base it on feelings but base your new life in Christ on the promises of our Savior who will never leave you nor forsake you! Amen!